Judgements

How do we judge others ? is it fair to judge them based on OUR own standards?2 months ago, I've had a list of whats '' right '' and whats '' wrong '' .. of whats '' good '' and whats '' bad '' .. I was never really into judging but I'd be honest and I'll admit, I did have standards for everything ..but then I met a friend who opened up my eyes and made me realize how wrong I was … no one is supposed to judge anyone ..and whats even worse is when you do it based on your own standards …
Let me give you an example, marriage is very holy to christians .. and no one is allowed to marry more than one woman .. but in islam, men get to have 4 wives .. if you ask any christian about what they think, they'd say its madness .. imagine them knowing that our prophet had more than 10 wives .. he'd be a joke to them .. do you get my drift ? right and wrong don't exist .. unless it was common sense of course but again, common sense doesn’t make sense anymore …

Lets hit the point, MY PARENTS ARE GIVING ME HARD TIME .. I'm being judged so hard .. they think I've been out of kuwait way too many times, but I think they’ve been out too few times ..
mum, dad, my dear brothers and sisters, GET OUT OF HERE AND SEE WHAT LIFE IS REALLY ABOUT !!!

it is so sad to watch them think like that … they have this typical kuwaiti mentality .. I mean no disrespect but this is not even a mentality, its what I call the KUWAITI STUPIDITY ..let me explain it more .. let me define the TYPICAL KUWAITI citizen ? superficial, 1st thing they'd ask you is your last name , girls are judged by the prices of what they wear and guys are judged by the car they drive.. you can never have a decent conversation with any of them because they don’t know what '' conversation '' means, its all GOSSIPING to them .. everyone is trying to be better than the rest of them and by better I mean, looking cooler or having cooler gadgets .. no body has his own way of thinking .. they just go with the flow .. a lot of them have no destination or dreams and the ones who have goals, would wanna have a better job for a better salary so they can buy a yacht, a chelet or a pimpy ride ! I'm so sorry if I was being judgemental, harsh or any.. I'm just trying show you the people I deal with everyday ..I know I'm not supposed to judge and I;m not .. I just need this to clear my next point …

I've been different since I was young .. I';ve always been that little curious thing .. wrecking and breaking toys to see what makes them move .. digging the soil to find out where all these ants are going .. I've always wondered about everything .. ive always seeked answers from everywhere .. and I ended up having a little of everything .. a mixture of religeons , old philosophy and a different view of life ..

The things I dreamt about, the things I stood for, were different from the people around me .. and people started looking at me in a very weird way .. untill 3 years ago, they made me believe that I was some sort of a wierdo, a freak. But then, I travelled and I met people from different part of the world that told me that I was completely normal .. lol .. that’s when my journey of the truth has started … I wanted to know what life is really about .. the values that I was taught, the standards that I;ve been given .. they didn’t make sense to me and now I know whyy..
And I was given a new nickname .. I'm not only a freak but a rebel too .. because I'm going against everything those people believe in .. I'm not .. I'm just living my life .. I respect everything you believe in and I'd never try to change you so please, live and let live …

Woaw, such a long introduction for whatever I wanted to say ..MY FAMILY IS GIVING ME A HARD TIME !!they want me to talk like them, to dress like them , to THINK like them .. well it aint gonna happen .. they don’t like the fact that I have friends who are '' different '' .. they hate the fact that I got friends who are gay, who are atheist , who are non kuwaities … seriously .. ok ok I could understand the gay and atheist part but NON KUWAITIES ??? how sad is that ? looking down at those people because of their nationality or race !! THERE'S MORE TO A PERSON THAN THEIR NAME, AGE , NATIONALITY OR RACE !!plus, what if they were gay or atheist ? WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE ? u say its 7aram, I agree with u, it is 7aram but I;m not god and you're not god too so why don’t you mind your own business ? plus, everyone has their own flavor and u cant call me '' wrong '' because I prefer vanilla to chocolate and you can never force chocolate on me .. its exactly the same .. people are different and we sshould respect that .. if they respect you, then why not respect them back ? they never judged you, never caused you harm .. why judge them ? why make their life harder ? its so stupid ..

My sister thinks im crazy because I want to spend the rest of my life exploring the world, getting to know the different cultures, the language, the customs .. where' s the madnes in this ?my brother thinks I;m mo 9a7ia coz I'm gonna ask my husband to wear a necklace .. a black thread because I find it sexy .. now you think this is such a wrong thing ? to ask a man to wear a necklece? I've never called any of your kinky fanaties wrong .. lish ma7ad yeqol its wrong 3an el handcuffs ? the eye blinders and stuff ??

I'm just sick of this discrimation .. whatever people favors is RIGHT ! … so a girl walking with full make up, wearing a skirt higher than her knees with sleevless top IS OK ? because its common here .. its ok, there is nothing wrong with that .. but seeing a girl ona bicycle or jogging bel mamsha IS FOTHEE7A O '3ALA6 O 3AIB O AMBEE !

I don't want to write more because I'm trying to clear my systems of nagative thoughts, I'll just say allah yehdihom 3ala hal tafkeer .. and here's a tip:
Seriously, get ur brain checked .. cause I think its disconnected !